Meditate His Word
Psalms 1:2 - but whose delight is in the law of the Lord, and who meditates on his law day and night.
How you react in life and how you response towards situation shows what you believe inside.
Likewise, what you're speaking of everyday shows what you believe inside.
Faith comes from hearing and hearing from the word of God. You're to constantly listen to His Word
Instead of other people's words; because faith comes only when you hear the Word!
The psalmist said delight in his word, to delight means you're happy and you find pleasures in his Word.
You just love it and it makes you happy! Therefore, love His Word and meditate on it day and night,
Every single moment meditate on what Jesus has said, and your life can turnaround!
My friend, a right believing produces a right living, what you meditate on today can greatly affect your life, therefore choose not to meditate your problems but the Word of God. Day and night remembering what He says, as you delight in His Word, you're blessed! :)